Israeli pop star shows fist-bumping Biden how to avoid physical contact
Religious singer declines to shake hand of president for reasons of modesty, leaving leader of the free world hanging amid his own half-hearted attempt to keep away from others
JTA — For the first day of Joe Biden’s visit to Israel, the buzz about handshakes was that, despite a pandemic-related plan to avoid touching, he couldn’t keep his hands away from grasping others.
That changed on Thursday afternoon. That’s when Yuval Dayan, an Israeli pop star, turned the tables, leaving the US president hanging after Biden extended his hand to her.
Dayan and another singer named Ran Danker had just performed a rendition of the classic song “Lu Yehi,” or “Let it Be,” at a ceremony marking Biden’s receipt of Israel’s highest civilian honor. Afterward, Biden and Israeli president Isaac Herzog approached the artists to thank them.
Danker took Biden’s outstretched hand, but Dayan bowed instead, clasping her hands together and smiling.
What Biden likely didn’t know was that Dayan has committed to refrain from touching members of the opposite sex for reasons of modesty. She is famous in Israel in part for becoming more religiously observant, embracing the principle of shomer negiah, a prohibition on opposite-sex touching that some Orthodox Jews believe is required, as well as not performing on Shabbat or Jewish holidays.
The prohibition is rooted in the idea that any touch can lead to sexual impropriety. The refusal to shake women’s hands of an Orthodox European Parliament candidate in 2014 caused a minor political crisis.
Yuval Dayan, famous singer, BT wouldn't shake hands with the president
Biden seemed to have taken it well. pic.twitter.com/gb3P5akpjT— benwaxman (not a parody) (@benwaxman) July 14, 2022
A year later, when Orthodox lawmaker Tzipi Hotovely gained authority over Israel’s Foreign Ministry in 2015, she said she would shake hands with men who offered her theirs despite ordinarily refraining from touching. She noted that traditional Jewish law makes allowances for honoring dignitaries.
“It’s not a problem at all,” Hotovely told Israeli media at the time. “When someone meets foreign representatives the Jewish halacha [law] recognizes respect, etiquette and politeness.”
The incident with Biden went viral in Israel Thursday. Dayan, who came to fame as a contestant on Israel’s version of “The Voice,” said she had sought to avoid appearing to slight Biden and had communicated her needs to Herzog’s staff.
“I made sure to notify everyone in the president’s office that I am shomeret negiah,” she said, according to Israeli media. “God forbid, I did not mean to offend.”
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