As ultra-Orthodox women bring home the bacon, don’t say the F-word
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As ultra-Orthodox women bring home the bacon, don’t say the F-word

A sharp rise in Haredi women's employment rates is one development challenging limitations on women‘s roles within the family. Just don't call it feminism

Ultra-Orthodox women working in the Malam Group IT company in the Haredi settlement of Beitar Illit. (Nati Shohat/Flash90)
Ultra-Orthodox women working in the Malam Group IT company in the Haredi settlement of Beitar Illit. (Nati Shohat/Flash90)

Ultra-Orthodox women will not say the F-word.

For the first time since the founding of the State of Israel, ultra-Orthodox women are now more likely to be employed than non-ultra-Orthodox women. According to the Central Bureau of Statistics, about 75-80 percent of ultra-Orthodox women are employed, compared with 75% of the general female population. Since 2000, employment of ultra-Orthodox women has increased by a staggering 30%.

In any sector, climbing rates of female employment are often an encouraging sign of the empowerment of women, and ultra-Orthodox society is no different.

But ultra-Orthodox, also known as Haredi, women will never call this trend the F-word: feminism.

Due to this increase in employment rates, the position of Haredi women is undergoing a dramatic revolution within their communities as they begin to pursue higher studies and professional careers.

“Now women are asking, what is my role in the family?” said Tzipora Gutman, the director of a center for troubled girls that is part of the Mandel Programs for Leadership Development in the Haredi Community.

Gutman spoke at an Israel Democracy Institute conference “The Haredi Woman in the 21st Century: Family, Community and Society,” which took place on December 21 in Jerusalem. “No one calls this feminism or independence, but these are foundational questions we all need to ask ourselves. Although these voices are a minority, they are still voices that are very important to [Haredi] leadership and important rabbis.”

More than two dozen female haredi leaders, educators, rabbis, and sociologists gathered at the Israel Democracy Institute for a conference entitled "The Haredi Woman in the 21st Century: Family, Community and Society." (Melanie Lidman/Times of Israel)
More than two dozen female Haredi leaders, educators, rabbis, and sociologists gathered at the Israel Democracy Institute for a conference entitled ‘The Haredi Woman in the 21st Century: Family, Community and Society.’ (Melanie Lidman/Times of Israel)

The changing role of women in the Haredi society is twofold: more professional studies and more options for employment. While many Haredi women said the change is part of an internal cultural shift, outside experts pointed to external economic pressure, like reductions in child allowances in 2003, which forced the ultra-Orthodox into the workforce.

Two parents, one paycheck

Ultra-Orthodox women have a unique position compared with matriarchs of other two-parent families. In Israel, they have traditionally been deferential to their husbands, but also the main breadwinners.

Haredi culture honors men who dedicate their lives to learning Torah above all else, so that places pressure on women to be the sole working parent. This means that the women are often responsible for both working and raising their families.

“Haredi women have an internal fire, they are the real base of Haredi society,” said Naomi Perl, the director of the Mandel Programs for Leadership Development in the Haredi Community. “Haredi women are the ideological motor of the community.”

While ultra-Orthodox culture around the world has always held full-time Torah learning in the highest esteem, after the founding of Israel, this took on an entirely different tone.

Tzipora Gutman, the director of center for troubled girls and an educational policy expert, says haredi women are beginning to question their traditional roles in the family. (Melanie Lidman/Times of Israel)
Tzipora Gutman, the director of a center for troubled girls and an educational policy expert, says Haredi women are beginning to question their traditional roles in the family. (Melanie Lidman/Times of Israel)

“For Haredim, after the Holocaust, there was a serious concern that the Haredi way of life was threatened with disappearance, that it wouldn’t be strong enough to survive,” said Gutman. “The [leaders] took an ideological line that the way to ensure survival was to have as many men as possible learn Torah. That means that by the 1990s, two-thirds of Haredi men didn’t work.”

Women were an important part of this campaign, because when they went out to work, they enabled their husbands to pursue learning. “There are women who see their support of this as a huge happiness and an honor,” said Gutman. “Women are working so hard, but they feel very happy about that.”

When men study full-time at a kollel yeshiva, they receive a small stipend from the government.

Approximately 55% of ultra-Orthodox men learn full-time and do not work, according to Shahar Ilan, vice president of Hiddush, an organization that advocates for full Haredi participation in the army and workforce as well as other religious freedom issues in civil society.

According to Hiddush, the government pays a stipend to approximately 110,000 yeshiva students (70,000 married men, and 40,000 single men over 18). There are an additional 15,000 yeshiva students that study full-time but do not take money from the government, some for ideological reasons.

An illustrative photo of yeshiva students in Israel (Yaakov Naumi/Flash90)
An illustrative photo of yeshiva students in Israel (Yaakov Naumi/Flash90)

The government’s stipend is approximately NIS 900 ($230) per month, and usually the kollel (yeshiva for married men) doubles this amount through fundraising and donations. Some 10,000 yeshiva students receive an additional NIS 1,000 from the government because they have three or more children.

The real economic reason that allowed women to stay home and raise the family or work very few hours was child allowances, Ilan said. Until 2003, a family of ten children received about NIS 6,000 each month. Benjamin Netanyahu, who was finance minister in 2003-2005, drastically reduced child allowances during his term. A family with ten children now receives about NIS 2,000 to 3,000 a month.

“The child allowances was a kind of salary, but the cut in child allowances forced Haredi families to find new income sources,” said Ilan. “The immediate reaction was sending the women to work.”

Haredi children in Jerusalem. (photo credit: David Vaaknin/Flash90)
Haredi children in Jerusalem. (David Vaaknin/Flash90)

For ultra-Orthodox women, working so their husbands can learn full-time is a status symbol. Even Rabbanit Adina Bar Shalom, the daughter of Shas spiritual leader Rabbi Ovadia Yosef and one of the preeminent female Haredi leaders, said she felt the same pressure as a newlywed.

“I was the classic example. I asked him not to work so that I could be the breadwinner,” Bar Shalom said at the conference. Her husband, Ezra Bar Shalom, learned full-time before becoming a rabbinic judge. “It doesn’t matter how much we need to work, we want them to stay a Torah learner, no matter what,” she said. “Women have even threatened to divorce men if they stop learning and go to work. If he can’t ‘make it’ as a Torah learner, they carry this frustration and disappointment within themselves for years.”

Change is in the air

Vardit Rozenblum, a lawyer for both civil and rabbinic courts with Midat Institute for Torah Policy, explained that the ultra-Orthodox position of being in panicked survival mode following the Holocaust is slowly abating. “This was a time of war, people were in a war situation,” she told The Times of Israel. “Haredim grew up thinking, we are going to war. They didn’t ask questions, like, is this [learning Torah all day] right for me? These are the questions you can ask only when you’re not fighting for survival. The feeling for my generation was that you have to bring every youth into this war.”

This collective mission of fighting for survival took over the entire ultra-Orthodox society for the past 70 years, said Rozenblum, who is also a graduate of the Mandel Institute for Haredi Leadership.

Naomi Perl, co-founder of the Ron Shulamit Conservatory Har Nof branch for Haredi girls, on the left, and Vardit Rozenblum, a lawyer for MIDAT, at the Israel Democracy Institute conference on December 21. (Israel Democracy Institute)
Naomi Perl, cofounder of the Ron Shulamit Conservatory Har Nof branch for Haredi girls (left), and Vardit Rozenblum, a lawyer for MIDAT, at the Israel Democracy Institute conference on December 21, 2015. (Israel Democracy Institute)

“But we’ve won this war; it ended and we have won,” she said. It is clear that the Haredi way of life is no longer threatened, and they are no longer a threatened minority. According to the Jerusalem Institute of Israel Studies, in 2015 there are about 830,000 ultra-Orthodox in Israel, which accounts for 11% of the population. If current birth trends continue, by 2059, the ultra-Orthodox will account for 30-40% of the population.

“When people come back from war, that’s when the more complicated voices come in,” said Rozenblum. “Now that we’re not fighting for our survival, we can allow ourselves to be critical.”

For Rozenblum, that means families should be asking themselves, is it the right move for my son to only learn Torah? Is that what he wants? Does he have the disposition, and the ability, to sit and learn all day for the rest of his life?

This questioning also affects the role of women.

“We got to this situation where the world of Torah is no longer in danger,” explained Gutman. “That means my role as a woman to save it is not a critical need.”

“As women become more professionally developed, they went into the rest of Israeli society and they really understood about personal satisfaction and development, and they went back to Haredi society with new ideas,” she said.

It’s also clear that the current situation for the ultra-Orthodox is not sustainable.

“It can’t be that the man doesn’t work, the woman doesn’t learn [for a college degree], and yet they still have enough money to buy an apartment for their son who also doesn’t work,” Gutman added.

Have diploma, will work

Two decades ago, the Council for Higher Education estimated that only about 500 Haredim per year were studying for advanced degrees. This was due both to a lack of Haredi colleges and to intense social pressure to stay within the traditional employment roles for Haredim, which are mostly education.

But in 2015, about 10,000 Haredim (both men and women) were studying for advanced degrees or certificates.

A degree enables women to work in more professional capacities and earn more money, and ultra-Orthodox women are now pursuing many different types of degrees.

“It used to be that so many Haredi women were forced to learn teaching, because it kept them ‘safe’ even in the working world,” said Dr. Mira Greenberg, an educational psychologist and parental guidance counselor at the Talpiyot College for Education, a national-religious college which has separate tracks for ultra-Orthodox women.

“But then the Haredi society was creating so many teachers and nursery school teachers and there wasn’t even enough space for them to all get jobs.”

Bar Shalom founded the Haredi College of Jerusalem in 2001, which now has more than 2,000 graduates. It offers degrees for women in laboratory sciences, music therapy, and psychology, among other subjects.

Former Minister of Interior Affairs Eli Yishai Kisses the Spiritual leader of the ultra orthodox Shas party Ovadia Yosef hand during a dedication ceremony for the new home of the Haredi College in Jerusalem on December 14, 2009. (Abir Sultan/Flash 90)
Former interior minister Eli Yishai kisses the hand of the late spiritual leader of the ultra-Orthodox Shas party Ovadia Yosef during a dedication ceremony for the new home of the Haredi College in Jerusalem on December 14, 2009. (Abir Sultan/Flash 90)

Although Haredi higher studies have grown exponentially, it is still a somewhat radical move for both men and women because it is new. The pressure can be even more intense for men, because it means they are making an active choice not to learn Torah full-time. The Haredi College offers male tracks with part-time Torah studies as part of the degree, and programs like Kemach also try to combine study and professional studies. Sometimes women even hide the fact that they are learning from their extended family or neighbors, said Rozenblum.

“Of late there’s been a fight [from Haredi rabbis] against women going to academia,” said Gutman. “She’s exposed to new people and new ways of thinking; she didn’t even knew these things existed. That’s a big threat to the traditional Haredi way of life.”

“[Haredi women] finish their degrees as different women when they go back home,” said political science and communication Professor Ines Gabel, who is not Haredi but teaches Haredi students at the Open University. “Even if she is still a believer, she still has things that she saw that she can’t un-see.”

Bar Shalom witnesses this transformation first-hand in the female students at the Haredi College. “The first-year students, if they hear one word about feminism, they won’t come back to the class,” said Bar Shalom. “They say, we came to learn in a Haredi environment! In their third year, we could be having a conversation with the rabbi and rabbanit that accompany them through their degree, and they say, what do you mean the husband is always right?! That’s impossible, I can be right, too!”

Adina Bar Shalom attends a Shas faction meeting at the Knesse on July 6, 2015. (Hadas Parush/Flash90)
Adina Bar Shalom attends a Shas faction meeting at the Knesset on July 6, 2015. (Hadas Parush/Flash90)

The pushback from the ultra-Orthodox leadership also comes because they knows that a degree will lead to employment, perhaps even in the outside world.

“Haredi women get mixed messages, even contradicting messages,” said Ilan, of Hiddush. “The society is saying to them, you have to be educated because you have to bring money and income that will offer men the opportunity to study Torah. But it’s also saying to them, it’s not good for women to be important. You shouldn’t do a career. The reason you’re working is not to fulfill yourself, it’s not to be important. The only thing that really matters is that you will bring food to your family and give your men the opportunity to study Torah.”

Women who go out into the working world create tension not only within ultra-Orthodox society, but also possibly within their homes.

“There can be problems where a man is only learning Torah, that isn’t just a material price, but also a spiritual price,” Rozenblum said. “It can threaten the couple’s intimacy, because the man stays within the closed world of the Torah, and the woman is going out into the world.”

Revolution vs. Evolution

Despite the challenges, times are changing, as the numbers of enrolled students and female employment rates demonstrate. But many of the ultra-Orthodox female leaders stress that any meaningful change for women must come from within their own community.

Revolutions are sometimes necessary to create radical change, but within conservative societies, it can often create an opposition so strong that any attempt to change will be thwarted. The better approach, they said, is to foster evolutionary change – gradual, natural development that eventually is adopted as mainstream.

“The changes will have to be from the bottom, not by policy changes,” said Gabel, the professor who teaches Media and Communication to ultra-Orthodox women through the Open University. “This type of development can only come from the grassroots level.”

But even change from within will not be simple.

Bar Shalom fought for years to get the approval from the necessary rabbis to allow students to enroll in the Haredi College without facing social isolation. Before founding the college in 2001, she survived a slander campaign plastered on pashkevillim (posters that spread news in ultra-Orthodox neighborhoods) and personal attacks against her character.

Illustrative photo of an Ultra Orthodox Jewish man reading a "Pashkvil"-- an information poster -- in the ultra-Orthodox Jerusalem neighborhood of Meah Shearim, August 19, 2014. (Photo credit: Yonatan Sindel/Flash90)
Illustrative photo of an ultra-Orthodox Jewish man reading a ‘Pashkvil’ — an information poster — in the ultra-Orthodox Jerusalem neighborhood of Mea Shearim, August 19, 2014. (Yonatan Sindel/Flash90)

Bar Shalom barely succeeded in her attempt to create change, even as the daughter of the preeminent spiritual leader of the ultra-Orthodox world.

She’s still in a daily battle to encourage women (and men) to enroll. While she was weighing a run for the Knesset during the last election, her main concern was that her entrance into political life would taint the name of all the students associated with the Haredi College as being too radical. Bar Shalom eventually decided not to run, but has said there will be female ultra-Orthodox candidates in the future “when the time is right.”

Israel's President Shimon Peres visits the Haredi College of Jerusalem. November 20, 2011. (Uri Lenz/FLASH90)
Then-president Shimon Peres visits the Haredi College of Jerusalem. November 20, 2011. (Uri Lenz/Flash90)

Rozenblum said that external forces trying to reform ultra-Orthodox society can do more harm than good, like Yesh Atid leader Yair Lapid. Lapid has been very vocal about issues like Haredi enlistment in the IDF, reduction in yeshiva budgets, and the introduction of core curriculum into ultra-Orthodox education.

“[Lapid] said radical things that affected us in the short term, that made us close up and close down the avenues for change,” she said. “This process is happening slowly, it’s a natural development.”

Ilan disagrees with the concept that change must only come from within. “The change is happening mainly because of pressure from the outside,” he said. “The change is happening because of Netanyahu cutting child allowances, and Israeli society saying ‘we’re not willing to pay for you anymore not to work.’”

“But this outer pressure can’t be direct pressure,” Ilan added. “You cannot force them to go to an academy. It has to be indirect, like cutting allowances, that’s the kind of pressure that works. You can’t say ‘do this, or do that.’ Because that will create a situation where they say ‘it’s against the Torah!’ The Torah can be very flexible for Haredi leadership, it can be whatever they want it to be.”

Ilan said actions like financial rewards for schools that teach boys secular subjects like math and English will be more effective than trying to force every school to teach these subjects. “It’s the carrot, and not the stick,” he said.

The reaction to direct pressure has been evident in recent weeks with massive demonstrations against mandatory ultra-Orthodox enlistment in the army, featuring tens of thousands of yeshiva students in Jerusalem’s Haredi Mea She’arim neighborhood.

Ultra-orthodox Jewish men protest against the army draft, in Jerusalem's Mea Shearim neighborhood, December 22, 2015. (Yonatan Sindel/Flash90)
Ultra-Orthodox Jewish men protest against the army draft, in Jerusalem’s Mea Shearim neighborhood, December 22, 2015. (Yonatan Sindel/Flash90)

The government and institutions can take concrete steps to encourage ultra-Orthodox women to study for professional degrees and enter the workforce by creating places of work that are suitable for ultra-Orthodox employees, or supporting programs that encourage companies to hire the ultra-Orthodox, said Rozenblum.

Rozenblum recalled the story of Rabbi Shimon Bar Yohai, who sat in a cave learning Torah with his son Rabbi Elazar, surviving only on carobs. After 12 years of study, they came out of the cave and saw people working in the fields. They were shocked that people could be engaging in “worldly matters” rather than studying Torah. A heavenly voice admonished them to return to the cave for another year. When they came out again, Bar Yohai and his son had a different perspective on work.

“There’s a process of coming out of this cave,” she said. “If you come out all at once, it can cause harm, it can actually cut you off from the world. The younger generation understand that this coming out needs to be done in steps.”

“With us, the word change is a little scary,” Rozenblum added. “We’ve been using it as a negative word. But now, little by little, change is becoming a bit more positive.”

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