Father of soldier killed, seized by Hamas on Oct. 7 urges hostage deal: ‘We want a place to grieve’

Ruby Chen, the father of Itay Chen, an American-Israeli soldier killed and abducted on October 7 by Hamas, speaks to a crowd in Tel Aviv's Hostages Square at rally marking 300 days since October 7 on August 1, 2024. (Screenshot, used in accordance with Clause 27a of the Copyright Law)
Ruby Chen, the father of Itay Chen, an American-Israeli soldier killed and abducted on October 7 by Hamas, speaks to a crowd in Tel Aviv's Hostages Square at rally marking 300 days since October 7 on August 1, 2024. (Screenshot, used in accordance with Clause 27a of the Copyright Law)

Onstage at a large rally in Tel Aviv’s Hostage Square, Ruby Chen, the father of American-Israeli soldier Itay Chen who was killed and abducted by Hamas on October 7, urges Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu to return the hostages and bring his son’s body back to Israel to be buried.

“We want a place to grieve, we want a place to close the circle and be able to continue the next chapter of our sad lives,” he says.

He recalls that last week, he and his wife, Hagit, met Netanyahu in the United States alongside US President Joe Biden. During the meeting, Chen told Netanyahu of a conversation that he had with Biden about his slain son.

“The same day that we received the terrible news, President Biden called us… I told President Biden that we chose not to sit shiva because Itay wasn’t there with us. He says that he told the president that “we won’t sit shiva so long as he does not return, and the government of Israel doesn’t return him.”

Prime Minister Benjamin Netanyahu (R) and US President Joe Biden (L) meet with families of American hostages at the White House, July 25, 2024. (Amos Ben Gershom/GPO)

“I reminded President Biden of that sentence, and then Biden asked Prime Minister Netanyahu: ‘Bibi, when will we sit shiva?'” Chen tells the crowd. “The response we got was not a good one.”

He invokes Netanyahu’s brother, Yoni Netanyahu, who was killed during the famous 1976 Entebbe hostage rescue operation.

“Remember your parents Benzion and Zila, may their memories be a blessing — they had a state funeral, a shiva, they had a grave to return to each year,” he recalls telling the prime minister. “I asked the prime minister where will we be on the next Yom HaZikaron, and the response I got then was also not good.”

“I very much hope that the prime minister, next time we see him, will succeed in giving me a better response and say: ‘I returned all the hostages… and the soldiers to burial because that is what this nation deserves.”

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