At the funeral for Ronen Engel in Kibbutz Nir Oz, his family eulogizes him as an optimistic, adventurous man, full of life and laughter, whose catchphrase was “Always look on the bright side of life.”
The volunteer EMT and motorcycle enthusiast was killed defending his family on October 7, 2023, and his body was then taken captive.
“You were the heart of our home — the one who knew how to make us laugh even on the hardest days, with your endless humor and optimism,” says Engel’s wife, Karina Engel-Bart, who was also taken hostage along with their two daughters on October 7. The three were released during a ceasefire in November 2023.
“You were always smiling, always with a witty line that made everyone turn to look at you and ask, ‘Is he serious?’ — and then hear you say, ‘I’m crazy, but I’m optimistic,'” she says.
Engel’s oldest daughter, Mika Engel, 18 when she was taken captive, eulogizes her father, saying she’ll never get to call him “Abush” again.
“It was you and me against the world — and now it’s just me, alone against the world,” says Mika Engel. “A world that’s torn me into a million pieces and is devouring me. How will I ever cope without you?
“I’m so tired of crying over your picture — I’d give anything to cry with you, just one more time, and not about you,” says Engel. “But, Abush — I’ve decided I’m going to live for you. I’ll do everything, I’ll see everything — for you.”
Engel’s youngest, Yuval, 10 years old at the time of the Hamas attack, remembers the “10 short but amazing years in which I got to be your little girl,” she says.
Ronen Engel’s older brother, Dani Engel, recalls his brother’s adventurous spirit.
“You had “ALWAYS” tattooed on your arm,” says Engel. “Only after October 7 did I really understand — that’s exactly how you lived your life. In the end, I’ve learned from you.”
He says at least his brother is home, buried in Nir Oz, and they will learn to live without him.