Foreign Ministry video spotlights couples who wed outside rabbinate

Spokesperson says clip should not be read as endorsement of nuptials outside religious authority, which aren’t recognized by State of Israel

Illustrative photo of a wedding. (Shutterstock via JTA)
Illustrative photo of a wedding. (Shutterstock via JTA)

Israel’s Foreign Ministry on Thursday shared a video apparently celebrating a range of weddings performed outside the state-run Chief Rabbinate, even though such ceremonies would not be recognized by the State of Israel.

The clip shared to the official account of the ministry’s digital diplomacy team, titled “Alternative Weddings in Israel,” spotlights several Israeli couples discussing their weddings and encouraging newlyweds-to-be to make their nuptials their own.

Two out of the three couples featured in the two-minute clip signaled they wed outside the Orthodox rabbinate, making their nuptials entirely symbolic under Israeli law.

“We had a Friday noon wedding, an outdoor wedding, between some fields and trees and inside nature. We didn’t have an Orthodox wedding, we got married by a friend, together we wrote the ceremony and everything,” said Anat, who got married two months ago.

“In Israel, there’s the Orthodox way to get married, through the rabbanut [rabbinate] institute, and we formed a path that both of us are happy with,” added a woman identified as Efrat, without elaborating on what ceremony they ultimately settled on.

The Foreign Ministry, in a statement to The Times of Israel, rebuffed the suggestion it was encouraging marriages outside the rabbinate.

“The Foreign Ministry shows the world all sorts of sides of the Israeli experience, including in married life. It should not be viewed as a recommendation or support to do this or otherwise,” a spokesperson said.

“If I were to make a movie about the gay community and you were not a member of the gay community, would you see it as a recommendation to become homosexual?” the spokesperson told The Times of Israel.

It was not immediately clear who the video was aimed at.

Israel’s rabbinate oversees all personal status issues for Jews, including marriage and divorce, and does not recognize civil unions conducted in the country, or ceremonies performed by non-Orthodox officiators. In recent years, some Orthodox rabbis have stepped up private ceremonies outside the rabbinate. Though such performing such ceremonies is illegal and carries a prison sentence, the ban on the practice is not enforced by police.

Couples, including mixed-faith couples, who want to be recognized are forced to travel out of Israel to conduct a civil wedding overseas, with many going to Cyprus.

Israel’s Chief Rabbinate did not immediately respond to a request for comment on the video.

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