Relatives of hostages still in Gaza during lull in fighting face enduring nightmare
‘It’s a deal that puts the families in a situation that is inhuman. Who will come out and who won’t?’ says one family member
Ofri Bibas Levy has been haunted by nightmares since October 7, when her brother, sister-in-law and their two young children were snatched by Hamas terrorists from their homes and dragged into the Gaza Strip.
In those dreams, she sees her captive relatives, all except for her brother Yarden. That subconscious omission may reflect her ordeal: Only women and children are expected to be among the 50 Israeli hostages released during a four-day ceasefire between Israel and Hamas that started Friday.
All captured Israeli men, and many women, will remain captive in Gaza for now. It is not clear if all children will be freed, though these were declared a priority of the deal. Hamas on Friday freed 24 people, including 13 Israeli women and children, 10 Thais and one Filipino. (The foreign nationals are not part of the Israeli deal with Hamas and are not included in the 50 to be freed.)
“It’s a deal that puts the families in a situation that is inhuman. Who will come out and who won’t?” Bibas Levy asked. “The children come out, but my brother and many other people stay?”
None of her relatives were among those freed in the first batch.
The temporary truce will bring relief to dozens whose relatives were held hostage — as well as to Palestinians in Gaza who have endured weeks of bombardment and dire conditions since Hamas’s October 7 shock assault, when thousands of terrorists invaded southern Israel by land, sea, and air and killed 1,200 people, a majority of them civilians of all ages, amid shocking brutality that included torture and rape. Terrorists took some 240 hostages.
And with most still in terrorists’ hands, only a fraction of families will be reunited under the current arrangement. There is some hope that the agreement could be expanded: Israel has said it will extend the truce by one day for every 10 additional hostages freed, and Hamas has said it will try to locate more children whose whereabouts it is uncertain of.
But many families are expected to endure the torment of not knowing the fate of their loved ones.
The plight of the hostages — who include men, women, babies, children and the elderly — has gripped Israelis. The hostages’ families have embarked on a campaign to free their loved ones that has tugged at the heartstrings of many and ratcheted up pressure on the Israeli government to make concessions and secure deals for their release.
That pressure and the families’ widespread public support could encourage the government to extend the truce, even though it has pledged to keep fighting until all the hostages are returned and Hamas is destroyed.
But securing the freedom of all hostages, especially the soldiers among them, could prove difficult. Terror groups in Gaza see the captives as a critical bargaining chip in their war with Israel.
The leader of Islamic Jihad, a group allied with Hamas, said Friday that Israeli soldiers who were taken wouldn’t be freed until all Palestinian security prisoners held by Israel are released.
Bibas Levy has put her life on hold to devote herself to fighting for her family’s release — her nephews, aged 10 months and 4 years, were some of the youngest taken captive. The occupational therapist, who moved out of a targeted southern Israeli community two months before Hamas’s attack, said she will keep battling until all her relatives return.
Dani Miran — whose son Omri was taken hostage — has been distraught over his well-being. With unbearable uncertainty and without a sign of life for seven weeks, he is plagued by difficult thoughts.
“My son is not on the list. He’s 46 years old. and I hope that he is in a healthy condition where he can cope with all the hardship that there is there. That they didn’t wound him, didn’t torture him and didn’t do things that are inhuman,” Miran said.
For many families, the news of a deal has sparked a mix of emotions — grief in cases where they don’t expect their loved ones to be freed, and hope that it may yet lead to further releases.
“I wish that all of them would come back, and I believe that all of them will come back. But we must have patience, and just be strong,” said Yaakov Argamani, whose daughter Noa, 26, was taken captive, along with dozens of other young adults from a music festival that came under attack on October 7. Hundreds were slaughtered at the party.
Many families have said they cannot endure listening to the news because all the twists and turns of the negotiations are incapacitating. The current deal, brought about after weeks of fitful negotiations, appeared definite until a last-minute snag prompted a one-day delay.
“It’s like a rollercoaster,” said Eyal Nouri, whose aunt Adina Moshe, 72, was among those released Friday. Earlier, Nouri had said that he did not expect her to be among those freed. Moshe’s husband, Said, was killed on October 7.
The nightmare for many won’t end even if their relatives are released, Nouri said.
After the joy of the reunion, those who return will need to reckon with the trauma of their captivity, their dead loved ones, their destroyed communities and their country at war.
“She has nothing. No clothes, no house, no husband, no town. Nothing,” said Nouri. Once she’s released “she’ll need to build her life from scratch, at 72 years old.”
Times of Israel staff contributed to this report.
